We're just "FRIENDS"

I've had this conversation with numerous guys and I always get the same response!  It has come to my attention that guys always have thoughts of having sex with their "homegirls" or friend that happens to be a girl. the first time I had this conversation, I immediately thought this was untrue because I have plenty of guy friends who never tried me. However, the  guy I was debating with let it be known that "he may never acted on it but believe, the thought crossed his mind" What??? How true is this? Even though I am not in a relationship, I am currently talking to someone and I asked him about this situation. To my surprise he agreed with the other guys. He admitted that the thought crossed his minds (of course he said it was before he met me..... uh huh). So is this true for all guys? Do you have sexual thoughts about your friends that are girls? Has the thought ever crossed your mind? Mostly you guys who call these girls your "sister" I mean EWWWWW! No Bueno! And ladies, has a guy friend that you only saw as a friend tried you? are y'all still friends? And if you're in a relationship with a guy who has a lot of female friends and homegirls how do you feel about it? I'm just saying..

NDS

To Tell or To Not Tell

I'm just saying,  we ALL deal with this! I know I am not the only one who been around someone with bad hygiene, bad breath, booger in the nose, something stuck in the teeth etc. and didnt know how to tell that person. Now when I say around a person I dont mean a best friend or a family member because those people, you have no problem at all telling stuff to. I'm talking about that class mate you get stuck doing a project with or that co worker who is so sweet and nice. How do you tell these people that something is FUNKY?!?  As I'm writing this blog, I happen to be sitting in the computer lab next to a guy that smells like cigarrtes, cheetos and pickles all mix together. He made small convo (No he was not hitting on me) but he made small talk about being stuck in a computer lab on a nice Saturday and thats when the smell SLAPPED me in the face! it was stink, disgusting,horrible. the smell made me want to cry something serious. So how do you handle these situations without sounding like a jerk? When there's a booger in someone's nose, do you make a little gesture and wipe your own nose so that they get a clue? When someone breath stinks do you offer gum or a mint? What do you do? Or do you not do anything? QTNA!

A little bit of everything

Lets get straight to the point. I'm Nicole! Its my middle name because I hate my first name. maybe one day in a blog I'll let you now my first name but IT WONT BE THIS BLOG! I'm 22 and I'm a college student. But here's the thing.... for some reason I just can't graduate! that will be a blog all by itself to tell you about. This blog is on Everything! from college to being a black female trying to make a career in journalism to finding true love to embracing natural hair (yes I'm natural) and so much more! hope you share all these moments with me and keep up with my blogs. and as always feel free to leave your comments (positive or negative). On that note Welcome and get ready for a whole lot of REAL!  I'm Just saying.....